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June 25, 2012

How to Deal with Failures?


let me start this story by telling another story. 

there's one girl, who really loves languages and literature
she loves to talk and its easy to deal with her if its about languages
she went to the SBP school since form 1, which offers only science stream for the students
she refused, and wanted to move out of the school as she wanted to become a lawyer
she thought that it would be great if she can take literature 

however, she was lucky enough as she got 8As for her PMR
the family and the school management said,' If u wanna go out of this school to take accounting, then its okay. but to take literature, better if you stay.'
what say she?
' i'm still a kid.'
i'll stay here.

2 years in the school, learning science was like putting her into troubles
but to talk about languages, she was able to put herself into a class where only 30 best students in English stayed together.
she managed to score the best marks in her batch once
so do Malay Language
her teachers called her as the diamond of the school for all her helps 

later on, 
she seek for a place in matriculation and university
yes she got her places there but fate brought her here, to IPG
she's now doing her degree in teaching

when she applied for a place in IPG, she said she wanted to be an English teacher
but she got a science course to be taken!
i got my English result much better than my sciences result!
i needed to polish my Physics and Chemistry!
i must learned Biology!
what on earth are you offering me??

few lecturers said that she was born to be a great teacher
she is talented
she has the talent and the ability to transfer the knowledge to her students very well
she is affectionate
she has a loud voice 
she can teach very well!
her guidance teacher from a school where she went for her practicum also said the same thing
' U have a very big potential to be a great SCIENCE teacher'

she got her result for last semester
for the first time
she failed her Chemistry
after all this while, she still can control all her not-understand in science but today...

she wonders
am i really can be a great teacher?
i have another chance to repeat the paper or else, goodbye 'teacher'
where this fate brings me later?

and the girl is me, as you expected
i need your moral support
i feel so down


M-lina said...

put love and trust on Allah, HE knows that u can do it.chill2.=)

Mas Ayu said...

yunk..chaiyok2..jgn give up k..masih ada harapan..nasib semua org xsama..u can be a great teacher i swear..:)

sHieLa said...

When I first faced failure, I cried. obviously and normally. and so nowadays whenever i failed or whenever i am stressed i do things that will "de-stress" me. do something that you love. its a therapy. :)

hadiah untuk hg.

"Dan janganlah kamu (merasa) lemah, dan janganlah (pula) bersedih hati, kerana kamu paling tinggi (darjatnya), jika kamu orang beriman." -3:139

"Barang siapa bertakwa kepada Allah nescaya Dia akan membukakan jalan keluar baginya, dan Dia memberinya rezeki dari arah yang tidak disangka-sangkanya. Dan barang siapa bertawakal kepada Allah, nescaya Allah akan mencukupkan (keperluan)nya." -65:2,3

Kuat sayang!!

syiftpm said...

bertahanlah qira
go go qirah.
Do ur very best, enjoy & find the excitement. Teach is a noble job.

Farah Izzati said...

qirah x keseorangan..Allah sentiasa ada bersama..always strong n stay strong..saya sangat yakin dengan qirah..insyaAllah..ujian Allah..hadapi dengan sabar..moga kemenangan bersinar suatu hari nanti..yakin padaNya..insyaAllah..all is well..insyaAllah..:)